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The Inappropriate Analogy: Wife Is a Mobile Toilet

Admin September 21, 2026

The statement 'wife is a mobile toilet' does not conform to conventional understanding. In normal social concepts and ethics, a wife is an equal and respected family member and should not be compared in such an inappropriate way. However, there are different manifestations in specific cultural customs or extreme individual cases:

Related to Traditional Customs in Southern Fujian

In the Southern Fujian region, there used to be items with a function similar to that of a 'mobile toilet' among the dowry items for a bride. In ancient times, there were usually no toilets set up in homes. To facilitate the bride's nighttime toilet needs, a wooden bucket with a lid would be prepared. Wealthy families would even make a 'cover' for it. This was mainly for the sake of convenience in daily life and was a type of traditional dowry item, reflecting the care for the bride's living details at that time. However, it should be made clear that this was just a household item, and there was an essential difference between it and the concept of equating a wife with a 'mobile toilet'. A wife is an individual with independent personality and dignity, while this wooden bucket is just an object, and the two cannot be confused.

Extreme Individual Cases

There are some extreme individual cases. For example, Chen Wenqing, the wife of Liao Shuhua, had the behavior of relieving herself anywhere after marriage. This may be due to special pathological reasons such as intellectual disabilities, which prevented her from using the toilet like a normal person, resulting in such behavior. However, this is a behavioral problem of a special individual, an abnormal manifestation caused by pathological factors. One cannot thus equate wives as a whole with 'mobile toilets'. Such an expression is not only disrespectful to the individual but also a serious misunderstanding and distortion of the identity of a wife, violating basic humanistic care and ethics.

In conclusion, whether from the perspective of cultural customs or extreme individual cases, one cannot draw the absurd conclusion that 'a wife is a mobile toilet'. Wives should be respected and treated equally both in the family and in society.